Below are a selection of articles I have written over the last few years on topics related to intimacy and relationship, trauma and neglect, sexuality, and general couple’s issues. Although some of them were written for a professional readership, I have shared them with many clients who have often found them helpful. I hope they will speak to you as well.

Coming Home to Passion: Restoring Loving Sexuality After Childhood Trauma and Neglect © 2004

Too Much of Nothing: Spotlight on Neglect © 2010

Am I a "Sex Addict?" © 2009

Old Dog New Tricks © 2010

Not for the Faint of Heart: Restoring Loving Sexuality in Couples Working Through Childhood Sexual Abuse and Neglect © 2003

The Essential Female Tragedy – Changing the Ending: Therapy with Mothers and Daughters
of the Incest Family © 2002

Body Oriented Psychotherapy in the Treatment of Trauma © 2004

The Devil's Finest Trick: A Review of a General Theory of Love © 2003

Emotion, Mindfulness and Therapeutic Change: Reflections on How We Use Our Brains © 2005

Minding the Body in Couple’s Therapy, Part 2: Letting Physiology Be Our Guide © 2005

Life Boat: A Repair Tool © 2007

Out of Tempest: The Challenge of Interactive Repair © 2007

The Practice of Empathy: The "Validation" Step of Intentional Dialog © 2007

Natural History of Sexuality: Staying Abreast of the Changes © 2006

The Largest Sexual Organ: Using Our Brains to Restore Traumatized Sexuality © 2006

Daniel Siegel's Reflections on Reflection: The Mindful Brain © 2007

Amending Our Process: Crafting Apologies that Heal © 2008

A New RDA: Exploring a Daily Practice of Intimacy © 2008

The Stepladder Up: Restoring Loving Sexuality in Couples Healing From Childhood Sexual Abuse © 2001